You Are More Than Your Marriage
When a marriage becomes a major source of pain, it can slowly change how you see yourself. You may start to measure your worth by whether your spouse appreciates you, listens to you, supports you, or recognises your sacrifices. Before long, so much emotional energy goes into trying to understand the relationship that there is […]
WHEN YOU FEEL ALONE IN YOUR OWN MARRIAGE: THE SILENT PAIN MANY WOMEN CARRY
There is a particular kind of loneliness that is difficult to explain. It is the loneliness of sharing a home with someone but feeling as though you are facing life alone. You wake up beside someone, yet your heart feels distant. You prepare meals, pay bills, care for children, attend to family responsibilities, and try […]
I CAN STILL BE SOMEONE’S WIFE EVEN IN MY DIVORCE.
Dear Coach Albert, My name is Melisa. I have been your follower since November 2024, around the time you were preparing for your wedding. As your follower, I have learned a lot from you about marriage, relationships, and life outside marriage as well. I was also privileged to attend two of your conferences here in […]
WHAT REPLACED COMMUNICATIONS IN YOUR MARRIAGE
I want to answer a question I get almost every week in my sessions: “Albert, we used to talk for hours. Now we barely say anything to each other. What happened?” Here’s the truth. Nobody wakes up one morning and decides to stop talking to their spouse. Communication doesn’t die in one dramatic moment. It […]
EMOTIONAL ABANDONMENT IN MARRIAGE
Family, let’s talk about something that destroys marriages quietly, without anyone ever raising a hand or saying a cruel word. Something so subtle that couples live inside it for years and still tell you “we don’t fight, so we’re fine.” I’m talking about emotional abandonment. When people hear the word “abandonment,” they picture someone packing […]
THE BROKEN WOMAN
Yes, I love you…. but is it okay with you to see me suffering with infections?. or I am such a bad woman to be taken care of?. I know I chose you out of love. You took me in, not to love me, but to prove your muscularity. Today, I won’t face the world, […]